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Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Peace Of Mind At The Workplace

by Remez Sasson

Work brings together people of different characters and behavior, and this often causes friction, resentment and stress. Sometimes the boss is too demanding, colleagues may be unpleasant, there might be too much work or the working conditions may not be comfortable. The job may be boring, there might be competition or envy between the workers or the customers may be uncongenial or unfriendly. No wonder there is tension and stress.

These are some of the reasons why most people eagerly wait for their vacation. Their vacation provides them a way to get out of their daily life and find some peace. The good news is that you do not have to wait for your vacation. You can learn to gain inner peace and enjoy every moment, right where you are. You can stop fretting and getting tense. You can experience peace of mind and happiness wherever you are. When your mind is peaceful, the whole environment become peaceful.

Now you probably wonder what you can do to make this come true. I am not going to talk here about meditation, though this is one of the best peace of mind tools. Below you will find some simple and easy to perform tips and suggestions to experience inner peace at your workplace.

You may not succeed at the first attempts, but if you keep on performing these suggestions earnestly, you will gradually begin to experience peace of mind. This peace will not only by inside you. It will spill over and influence your whole environment.

1) If the people you meet talk in a loud voice, are impolite and tense, you will probably react and behave accordingly, hereby raising the level of tension. On the other hand, if you stay calm, talk, act and react peacefully, people unconsciously emulate your behavior. You become a leading power, no matter what is your position at work.

2) Each day before you enter your workplace, repeat several times the following affirmation with feeling, faith and attention:
"My mind is peaceful throughout the whole day. I radiate peace around me. I talk peacefully, politely and with a smile. I choose to act peacefully".

3) Greet the people you meet at work.

4) Whenever you feel tension or anger building in you, take three deep slow breathes before any talking or action.

5) Pay attention to the words you think, say or write. Use only positive words.

6) Be polite.

7) Whenever you find yourself raising your voice, lower it immediately.

8) Talk in a medium pitch voice, not too loud or too low, and don't let the loudness or pitch of other people's voices influence yours.

9) Several times during your workday find a quiet place. It may be at your desk, or if it is not quiet enough there, it can be at the bathroom, an empty room or some other quiet spot. For several moments visualize a beautiful location that you love or some event that made you happy. Feel that you are there and enjoy the feelings that arise.

10) While working, concentrate on what you are doing. Put there your full attention. This will keep your mind off disturbing thoughts.

11) Don't waste your time and energy analyzing and thinking about people's motives and behavior, but rather try to improve your actions.

12) Before speaking with someone whom you dislike or fear, or someone who makes you feel tense or angry, take a few deep breathes and visualize the two of you conversing peacefully and harmoniously.

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Remez Sasson teaches and writes on positive thinking, creative visualization, motivation, self-improvement, peace of mind, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, among which are "Peace of mind in Daily Life", "Will Power and Self Discipline", "Visualize and Achieve" and "Affirmations - Words of Power".

Visit his website and find articles and books filled with inspiration, motivation and practical advice and guidance.
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The Power of Negative Thinking

by Remez Sasson

Negative thinking appears to be more prevalent than positive thinking. It seems that with most people positive thinking requires some effort, whereas negative thinking comes easily and uninvited. This has much to do with education and the environment one has been living in.

If you have been brought up in a happy and positive atmosphere, where people value success and self-improvement, then it will be easier for you to think positively and expect success. If you have been brought up under poor or difficult situations, you will probably go on expecting difficulties and failure.

We all view everything through our predominant mental attitude. If our thoughts are positive, that is fine, but if they are negative, our lives and circumstances will probably mirror these thoughts.

If you believe that you are going to fail, you will unconsciously sabotage every opportunity to succeed. If you are afraid of meeting new people or having close relationships, you will do everything to avoid people and relationships, and then complain that you are lonely and nobody loves you.

Do you often think about difficulties, failure and disasters? Do you keep thinking about the negative news you have seen on the TV or read in the newspapers?

Do you see yourself stuck and unable to improve your life or your health? Do you frequently think that you do not deserve happiness or money, or that it is too difficult to get them? If you do, then you will close your mind, see no opportunities, and behave and react in such ways, as to repel people and opportunities.

The mind does not usually judge or examine thoughts and opinions before accepting them. If what it hears, sees and reads is always negative, it accepts this as the standard way of thinking and behavior.

The media constantly bombards the mind with a lot of information about disasters, catastrophes, wars and other unhappy events. This information sinks into the subconscious mind, and then manifests as your habitual manner of thinking. By occupying the mind with depressing and pessimistic thoughts you radiate negative energy into the surrounding world, thus creating and recreating more negativity, failures and disasters.

The mind is neutral energy. The way you think determines whether the results are positive and beneficial or negative and harmful. It is the same of energy acting in different ways.

The good news are that persistent inner work can change habits of thinking. You must be willing to put energy and time to pursue positive thinking, in order to change your mental attitude.

A few Tips:

- Each time you catch yourself thinking a negative thought, reject the thought, and think a positive one instead.

- If you catch yourself visualizing failure, visualize success instead.

- If you hear yourself uttering negative words, change to positive words instead.

- When you say, "I cannot", say, "I can".

- Do you repeat negative words and phrases in your mind? Change them to positive ones.

- Open your mind to positive attitude and expect positive results.

- Decide that from today, from this very moment, you are leaving negative thinking behind, and starting on the way toward positive thinking and behavior.

It is never too late to change your attitude and your life.

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Remez Sasson teaches and writes on positive thinking, creative visualization, motivation, self-improvement, peace of mind, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, among which are "Peace of mind in Daily Life", "Will Power and Self Discipline", "Visualize and Achieve" and "Affirmations - Words of Power".

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Developing Will Power and Self Discipline


by Remez Sasson

Most people admire and respect strong individuals, who have won great success by manifesting will power and self discipline. They admire people, who with sheer will power, self discipline and ambition, have improved their life, learned new skills, overcame difficulties and hardships, reduced their weight, rose high in their chosen field or advanced on the spiritual path.

The truth is that everyone can reach high levels of will power and self-discipline through a practical method of training. These inner power are not reserved for a few special people.

Will power and self discipline are two of the most important and useful inner powers in everyone's life, and have always been considered as essential tools for success in all areas of life. They can be learned and developed like any other skill, yet, in spite of this, only few take any steps to develop and strengthen them in a systematic way.

What is will power?
It is the inner strength to make a decision, take action, and handle and execute any aim or task until it is accomplished, regardless of inner and outer resistance, discomfort or difficulties.

It bestows the ability to overcomes laziness, temptations and negative habits, and to carry out actions, even if they require effort, are unpleasant and tedious or are contrary to one's habits.

What is self discipline?
It is the rejection of instant gratification in favor of something better. It is the giving up of instant pleasure and satisfaction for a higher and better goal.

It manifests as the ability to stick to actions, thoughts and behavior, which lead to improvement and success. Self-discipline is self-control, and it manifests in spiritual, mental, emotional and physical discipline.

The purpose of self-discipline is not living a limiting or a restrictive lifestyle. It does not mean being narrow minded or living like a fakir. It is one of the pillars of success and power. It bestows the inner strength to focus all your energy on your goal, and persevere until it is accomplished.

Both of these abilities are required for daily actions and decisions, and also for making major decisions and attaining major success. They are required for doing a good job, for studying, building a business, losing weight, bodybuilding and physical exercises, maintaining good relationships, changing habits, self improvement, meditation, spiritual growth, keeping and carrying out promises and for almost everything else.

One of the most simple and effective methods to develop will power and self-discipline is by refusing to satisfy unimportant and unnecessary desires. Everyone is constantly confronted and tempted by an endless stream of desires and temptations, many of which are not really important or desirable. By learning to refuse to satisfy every one of them, you get stronger.

Refusing and rejecting useless, harmful or unnecessary desires and actions, and intentionally acting contrary to your habits, sharpen and strengthen your inner strength. By constant practice your inner power grows, just like exercising your muscles at a gym increases your physical strength. In both cases, when you need inner power or physical strength, they are available at your disposal.

Here are a few exercises:
- Don't read the newspaper for a day or two.
- Drink water when thirsty, in spite of your desire to have a soft drink.
- Walk up and down the stairs, instead of taking the lift.
- Get down from the bus one station before or after your destination, and walk the rest of the way.
- For one week, go to sleep one hour earlier than usual.
- If you like ice cream, don't have any, for a day or two.

These are only a few examples to show how you can develop your will power and self-discipline. You may think that practicing such exercises is being tough on yourself, maybe a little, but they add so much to the storehouse of your inner strength. By following a systematic method of training you can reach far, have more control over yourself and your life, attain your goals, improve your life, and gain satisfaction and peace of mind.

Show and prove to yourself that you are strong and in control, and practice the above exercises for a little while, before passing any judgement on them.

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Remez Sasson teaches and writes on positive thinking, creative visualization, motivation, self-improvement, peace of mind, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, among which are "Peace of mind in Daily Life", "Will Power and Self Discipline", "Visualize and Achieve" and "Affirmations - Words of Power".

Visit his website and find articles and books filled with inspiration, motivation and practical advice and guidance.
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The Inner Dialogue

by Remez Sasson

Do you talk with yourself? When we hear people talking aloud with themselves we consider it weird. But have you noticed that all people, with no exception, talk silently with themselves? This, we do not consider odd or weird.

If someone hurts you in some way, or says something you do not like, what do you do? You enact a whole scene of anger in your mind! You envision yourself talking angrily; you shout at him and tell him some not so nice things. Sometimes people spend hours in such negative, destructive inner dialogues.

There is a continuous conversation going on in everyone's head, and a lot of energy, time and attention are wasted on small unimportant incidents. This conversation goes on from the moment of waking until falling asleep.

The inner dialogue continues while working, studying, reading, watching TV, talking, walking, eating, etc. There is a constant judging of people, commenting on what is going on, planning, gossiping, and mental conversations with people.

These inner dialogues bring about a snowball effect. The more we conduct them, the more we become chained to them and unable to stop them. When the emotions are also evoked, more power, energy and attachment are added. This has an adverse effect on the behavior, judgment and general performance.

On many occasions the inner dialogue is negative and strengthens any negative attitude and behavior. Few people have enough faith in themselves and in their abilities, so as to conduct positive inner dialogues. The process and effect of these inner conversations is similar to affirmations. Constant thinking about the same subject influences the subconscious mind, which consequently accepts these thoughts and words and acts on them. Negative inner dialogues bring negative results, and positive inner dialogues bring positive results.

You can use this process to your advantage. It is an automatic activity, which goes on whether you are aware of it or not. If you learn to become aware of it, you gain the ability to control it. You can turn it into a positive dialogue. If you do that, you come to realize that you have a mighty power in your possession.

Try to be aware of your thoughts. Calmly watch what is going in your mind, even if after a few moments you may forget to do that. The inner dialogue goes on even when physically you are engaged with something else. It is not so easy to mentally separate oneself from the thoughts and words the flow through the mind.

Over and over again endeavor to keep your attention of what is going inside your head, and eventually you will be able to become aware of the inner dialogue for longer times. Watching the mind and what is going on inside it develops detachment. Detachment gives a better control of the mind and its chatter.

Whenever you catch yourself conducting a useless, futile conversation with yourself, stop it. Change it to something more useful. Replace the subject, and the words. It is like running an audiotape. Why not replace it with another tape that you like? Why let this tape play by itself? Change the words of the inner dialogue to positive ones about good health, happiness and success.

There is another thing you can do, but this needs concentration and will power. You can try to stop this inner conversation altogether. Try to ignore it and give your mind a vacation. Let the mind rest for a little while. Life can certainly go on, even when this dialogue is silenced. For a little while, enjoy some rest from the mind's incessant conversation.

The inner dialogue is fine sometimes, but most of the time it is just incessant useless chatter, which distract the attention from what you are doing at each moment. By becoming aware of it, and replacing it with a positive one, or just refusing to become involved with it, you gain the ability to control it.

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Remez Sasson teaches and writes on positive thinking, creative visualization, motivation, self-improvement, peace of mind, spiritual growth and meditation. He is the author of several books, among which are "Peace of mind in Daily Life", "Will Power and Self Discipline", "Visualize and Achieve" and "Affirmations - Words of Power".

Visit his website and find articles and books filled with inspiration, motivation and practical advice and guidance.
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Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Wisdom or folly? You Choose

Who is she?

"She is as awesome as a goddess, as playful as a small child, as comfortable as a mother's arms, as challenging as a prophet, as satisfying as a table laden with food, as mysterious as a lover hidden among the lilies."

She, of course, is Wisdom.

Isaiah 55 (Invitation to the Spiritually Thirsty) speaks the same message to that of Proverbs 1-9, though it is the LORD who speaks. This proves the synonymity of the LORD and Wisdom. Until we approach both simultaneously we cannot think like God, "'For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,' declares the LORD." (Isaiah 55:8 TNIV)

The final chapter of Proverbs' introduction gives opposing parties the chance to faceoff.

Wisdom stands in the blue corner and her table is adorned with game and scented wine; her servant-girls have personally issued the virtuous invitation: "You who are simple, turn in here... lay aside immaturity, and live, and walk in the way of insight." (Proverbs 9:4a, 6 NRSV)

Standing in the red corner is Ms Folly. Her table is bare and looks simple: bread and water. But her invitation is deceptive. She says, "Stolen water is sweet, and bread eaten in secret is pleasant." (Proverbs 9:17 NRSV) Those going Folly's way will end up dining with the dead.

Wisdom knows most will reject her offer, even some so-called godly people. She has seen so many go to their dire ruin for rejecting her attractive and ever-sensible offer.

The last chapter of the introduction to Proverbs has the motif of 'the last chance--make your choice' about it.
And this is how life works. At different junctures throughout we're asked to consider and then decide regarding wisdom. Time and again we'll make the wrong decision--and we pay for it; but God, in his eternally long-enduring grace continues to dish up the same offer. Only when we're physically dead will it be too late.

The point is when will we finally choose to accept it?

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Steve Wickham is a registered safety practitioner (BSc, MSIA, RSP) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min). He also has training and leadership Diplomas. His passion in vocation is facilitation and coaching; encouraging people to soar to a higher value of their potential. Steve's key passion is work / life balance and re-creating value for living, and an exploration of the person within us.

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Nothing Compares to You, Wisdom (Proverbs 8)

What's the most valuable thing to you? What is it that keeps you awake at night, worried? What determines your priorities? I bet the answer to these questions is not 'seeking wisdom.' Yet it's what Proverbs says is the most important task of life; the gaining of real biblically spiritual, moral wisdom.

Chapter 8 of Proverbs features the second of Lady Wisdom's three main speeches in Proverbs 1-9; the last one is in chapter 9. She cries out for all to listen to her, not just the simple, the mocker, the fool; although there is--in reality--a simpleton, mocker and fool within all of us, situationally at least.

There are four parts to Wisdom's Proverbs 8 speech:

1. An introductory section (verses 4-11)

Nothing compares to Wisdom. In 1990, Sinead O'Connor had a major hit with the song Nothing Compares to You. The lyric, "I know that living with you baby was sometimes hard, but I'm willing to give it another try," fits with our yearning for wisdom. It's a rocky journey.

Wisdom, in truth, is entirely dependable and faithful. She will never not return more than we invest. It may be a rocky journey, the life toward wisdom, but we'll reap a harvest of good if we do not give up (Galatians 6:9).

2. An informative section on the character of Wisdom (verses 12-21)

How do we know if we truly want Wisdom if we don't ever get to know her and what she's about? She, like God, loves certain things and hates other things. For instance, she says, "I love those who love me, and those who seek me early and diligently shall find me." (Verse 17 Amplified)

We discover early on that those who have their priorities set in the right order seek Wisdom first and foremost. It is the process of investing in our own blessing; a blessing that propagates onto others--"streams of living water will flow from within" that person out into their world and onto those around them (John 7:38). These will begin to live from the eternal context.

3. An autobiographical history lesson on the origins of Wisdom (verses 22-31)

It is in this section we learn where Wisdom is from. She's from God, from the very origin of his being. If God is love (and he most certainly is i.e. 1 John 4:8) and Spirit (John 4:24), he must also be truth, and wisdom. The character of Wisdom and God are inseparable. Wisdom has been from everlasting. The creation of the world is based in Wisdom.

4. Wisdom concludes with her authoritative, stern warning to 'embrace her ways.' (Verses 32-36)

"Those who embrace these my ways are most blessed. Mark a life of discipline and live wisely; don't squander your precious life." We must be awake and alert to Wisdom each morning and throughout... when we find her we "find life, real life, to say nothing of God's good pleasure." (quotes from The Message.)

But, those who reject Wisdom (God) injure themselves and flirt with death.

Copyright © 2009, S. J. Wickham. All Rights Reserved.

Steve Wickham is a registered safety practitioner (BSc, MSIA, RSP) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min).




Birthday Quotes - Words of Wisdom and Mirth to Live By

Some of the most quotable birthday sayings have been hand-picked for our birthday poems web pages. We want to share these poignant quotes with you, so that you can choose the one that best suits the sentiment you want to get across.

For your mom's birthday, there are quotes that express the love and care of motherhood throughout the ages. Let her know how much her hard work and sacrifice and unconditional love mean to you. Quotes are a wonderful addition to our birthday poems - try writing them in beautiful calligraphy and slipping them into a birthday card.

To honor a father who has been a tremendous influence in your life, whose hard work and wisdom have helped shape you into the person you are today, show him how much you appreciate all his love by adding appropriate birthday quotes to a card or gift on his special day.

Let your beloved know that he or she is always on your mind, and that this special person is so important and central to your life. Birthday quotes are a wonderful extra touch that says you are thinking of them and that you put time and effort into finding a way to honor your lives together.

Birthdays are such important events - every year, each person has a day that is uniquely for them, and it is wonderful to be able to take that opportunity to show them how they are such a big part of your life. Birthday quotes can be framed and kept as treasured keepsakes for many years to come.

Milestone birthdays, like a 50th or 60th, are especially good times to commemorate the accomplishments of the past and salute the ones you love with best wishes for the future.

The following birthday quotes are especially meaningful:

To me, fair friend, you never can be old,
For as you were when first your eye I eye'd,
Such seems your beauty still. -William Shakespeare

What a beautiful way to tell the one you love the most that their youth and loveliness never fades in your eyes. Or how about the following words of wisdom from one of the greatest comediennes of all time:

The secret of staying young is to live honestly, eat slowly, and lie about your age. - Lucille Ball

These and many other birthday quotes ring as true today as the day they were spoken or written, whether last year or three thousand years ago. Birthday quotes not only give us a connection to our loved ones, they connect us to all those who have gone before; they let us know that, no matter how many ages pass, people remain essentially the same.

Make this birthday a celebration to remember. Commemorate the special event with thoughtful or humorous birthday quotes that they will never forget.

My appreciation for poetry inspired me to create Special Birthday Poems. This is a website where I also share birthday quotes and encourage everyone to share them with their family and friends.

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Home Education Insights - Wisdom Booklet 32 - How Does God Silence His Detractors?

A lot of people have heard of the expression "Hallowed be Thy name", and may have wondered what God does to silence his detractors who are opposed to Him and therefore clearly not "hallowing" his name. This article will explore the important question of what God uses to battle his enemies.

The thoughts set out in this article review another aspect of my research in wisdom from the Bible and is part of our home education program. We'll start with Psalm 8. We'll ask the question, "Whom will God use to silence those who damage His name?"

Psalm 8 verse 2 states "Out of the mouth of babes and sucklings hast thou ordained strength because of thine enemies, that thou mightest still the enemy and the avenger." Its true that coming into close contact with young children changes a person's perspectives on life. However it may appear to some that there is no logical reason for God to claim that babes and sucklings would help defend his reputation against His enemies, his avengers and detractors.

When I think about how young children change a person's perspective on life I think of a time when I was having lunch with two business men. They were both in their late 50s or early 60s and they were both very successful business men. One turned to the other and with a big grin that was caused by looking at his grand baby and he said, "Having grand children really changes things doesn't it?

Perhaps God can use family situations like this to change a hard heart into one that thanks God for creating grand children too? That would be an example of hallowing God's name.

Another aspect of how God uses babes and sucklings to battle his detractors could be seen in the fact that Jesus Christ came into the world as a baby. That is all ancient history, and one could be excused for saying that this remarkable fact is not going to help God to keep his name hallowed today.

In my opinion an example of how children affect people's perspective is seen in this following incident cited in our history resource about Jonathan Goforth.

Jonathan Goforth had been treated badly by the locals in China and was fleeing from persecution, he approached a village for some refuge. The village people looked at him as a foreigner and refused to accept him and those traveling with him. They were not about to show mercy to one representing God' name.

At the time of the Boxer Rebellion Christians were thought to drink the blood of children, and the locals were quite ignorant of the facts. But when the local village men saw how badly the missionaries had been treated, and that Mrs Goforth and children were with him they allowed them to have shelter. God's name and his followers were respected and held in higher esteem, partly because they had children with them.

Often times I have been commended for the behaviour of my children in public. I believe that many people have a dim view of a Christian family until they meet one with children who can behave in public.

Parents cannot enjoy children that are well behaved in public unless they demonstrate God's love to the children at home by training them in what is acceptable behaviour. One way of doing this is by spending time with them and acting out appropriate behaviour for certain situations. This can done during home education times with father and mother as well.

The Bible clearly shows us that God is three persons, the head person is God the Father. Therefore there is a parallel relationship between God the Father and his children who are all Christians, and the earthly father and his children. If we have children that respect authority and their father or grandfathers one can see that they are providing a model of respect for God the Father.

This parallel relationship also provides weight to God's claim that he uses children to "hallow" his name, that the enemies and detractors may have no reason to laugh at God.

This last point is seen nowhere clearer than where a person who is professing to be a Christian, or a Christian leader has children that are clearly not demonstrating respect for their parents or those in authority. That is a bad advertisement for God, and gives occasion for his enemies to laugh at Him.

Laughing at God is opposite to hallowing His name.

Our home education program can be be found at http://www.ati.iblp.org/ati/

Neil Smith is a Financial Adviser in New Zealand and organizes Father Daughter Events in New Zealand. He writes articles on his insights about father-daughter relationships to assist other fathers in understanding more about this important relationship. Neil leads his family in the ATI home education program. His website is http://www.fatherdaughterevents.com

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Further Benefits of Moral Wisdom

The NIV title of Proverbs 3 is a little unimaginative, but it proves the point. The moral, spiritual and practical paybacks of securing wisdom are endless. It is simply the best way. And we don't look far for reason. Most of these chapter 3 verses state reason enough.

The continued subject of the father's speech is, of course, the son--the object is his upbringing. These proverbs, chapters 1-9, are really about the parental duty of a sound moral upbringing to the biblical standard. (Much of which seems altogether too difficult for us with our own children in this age--but is that simply an excuse?)

When we read the imperative language we get insight that compels us; no, we don't have a choice if we love our children and we also abide in truth. The wise, godly parent will therefore hold fast to Proverbs.

Well known almost more than any other couplet of verses, and very much underpinning, is the passage:

"Trust in the LORD with all your heart and do not rely on your own insight; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths" -Proverbs 3:5-6 (NRSV).

An entire life could be rightly based on those two verses alone, though in reality we need to know more about God to know how to trust him and follow him. But faith is a relatively simple concept.

But, this chapter introduces other important theological concepts, like discipline.

If only we were able to hear and heed the following consistently in our lives:

"My son, do not despise the LORD's discipline and do not resent his rebuke, because the LORD disciplines those he loves, as a father the son he delights in" -Proverbs 3:11-12 (NIV).

The LORD's discipline can be any setback in life as God allows all things that happen to happen. Our pain is not the point--it's merely a signal that something is wrong; our disciplined responses are the point. Pain is good in this way. It's an activator. We have the opportunity to respond the right way.

The following three verses place importance on the son gaining understanding, presumably as a result of the LORD's discipline--for that is how understanding is truly gained--in the midst of battle. Understanding is more precious than anything, a truly eternal possession.

And these verses simply lead to the crowning verse in the Jewel of Proverbs 1-9, in my view.

"Long life is in [Wisdom's] right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor" -Proverbs 3:16 (NIV).

For these three reasons we're supremely blessed. A long life is a fulfilled life, content with its lot, however it has turned out. Riches are spiritual riches primarily, but almost certainly (though not always) meaningful (i.e. spiritually meaningful) material riches of tangible variety are in abundance also. Honour comes in the form of a right and just reputation of a person of integrity--no cheap possession.

Wisdom is the 'tree of life' to all those who embrace her (3:18), casting the net back to Genesis and forward to Revelation. The tree of life analogy is intrinsically a biblical metaphor; reward for right relationship with God.

The rest of the chapter consists the origins of Wisdom, which came before Creation, an urging to cling fast to Wisdom (verse 21-26) and some notable warnings to follow the path of wisdom. It concludes with five 'do not' proverbs which lead to outcome statements: two negative and one positive.

If there is a hinge in Proverbs 1-9 it is chapter 3 with its richness and range.

Copyright © 2009, S. J. Wickham. All Rights Reserved.

Steve Wickham is a registered safety practitioner (BSc, MSIA, RSP) and a qualified, unordained Christian minister (GradDipBib&Min).

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